Our little black cat is getting older, nearly in his 16th year. He’s changing. He wants to be on my lap most of the time when I’m home and stationary. Since he’s deaf now, he sometimes roams from room to room meowing to see if we’re in the room or not because he can’t hear us. When we come in the front door, he notices the vibration of our snow stomping feet, but at times he runs to the wrong door to greet us. It’s sad and a little cute to see him muddling his way throught this new way to be on the planet.
His world has changed. His ears don’t move anymore. His whiskers are turning white. He can’t hear the birds that he used to chatter at each day during his daily window visits. He gets a bit startled when we walk up behind him since he didn’t hear us coming. And he’s starting to sleep a lot more.
What I miss the most is playing fetch with him in the living room. He can’t hear the tin foil ball anymore so he doesn’t know where to run to fetch it. And the vision in one of his eyes is impaired from the neighbors cat when it invaded our yard 2 years ago, so he can’t see motion and distance as well. Sometimes he misses when jumping up and then looks at us like, “What happened?” Life is changing for our little black cat, and I’m happy to lift him up every once in a while or make room for him to nap on me for comfort. It’s the least I can do for all the pleasure and entertainment he’s added to our lives through the years. And even better, it get’s me out of myself and focused on another being in the world so I don’t have to obsess or compulse about the unimportant things in life. He is a blessing and a reminder of how important it is to consider others, even the four leggeds.
Affirmation for the Day – ” I am thinking of others. ”
Remember to say the affirmation at least 3 times whenever you remember it, preferably in front of a mirror.
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